How many erogenous zones do you have? The myth goes that women have 7:

1. Ears

2. Lips

3. Neck

4. Breasts/nipples

5. Butt/anus

6. Feet/toes

7. Genitals

But what about the forehead? Or the backs of knees? The inner arm? Fact is, the human body is a vast erotic landscape where EVERY INCH can be teased, tantalized & turned on.

Try it!

Have your partner stand & bend over, resting their head & upper body on a pillow that’s set on a counter, dresser, or over the back of a couch — something at a comfortable height. Balance a coin, small stone or piece of jewelry on each wrist, something that will fall off and end the game if your partner dares to move. Or, count how many times your partner flinches, and that is the number of sexual favors you’re “owed” at the end of this session.

Begin! First, graze your hand lightly over your partner’s skin, just barely skimming the surface and tickling fine body hair, creating static electricity.

Caress your partner’s face with your finger tips. Trace around ears, nose, eyes. Draw your fingertips thru the hair on your partner’s head, gently stimulating the scalp. Use your lips, your breath, on the nape of the neck, down the shoulders, trace the spine. Slip one hand between legs while stroking neck & check with your other.

Move to the bed: face up, arms by sides. Continue exploring. Use your whole palm against the base of the penis or the fleshy outer lips of the vagina. Softly but firmly, massage in a small circle, energizing all the sexual nerve endings without stimulating them directly. After a minute or so, gently flutter your fingers up his shaft, or across her inner lips. Return to massaging, then follow with slightly more vigorous flutter-type touches. Go back and forth till your partner begs for more!